One more thing, don't take no for an answer.

One more thing, don't take no for an answer.

If the problem is a drug, don't accept “No, it can't be
changed.” Everything can be changed. Go to higher levels of
authority. Doctors are very understanding and sympathetic with
your intent. If the problem is leaking house gas, don't accept “We
can't find a leak,” implying there is none. Go to a building
contractor or the Health Department. Their equipment is better. If
you get nowhere, change to electric utilities. If the problem is
auto exhaust, don't accept “But we have to use the kitchen door to
the garage, because it's cold outside.” Conveniences vs. tremor is
no contest. Everyone benefits by excluding auto fumes from the
house. Lock the door and cover it with plastic. By the time you
have identified the culprits (probably 20 hours of work) surely
you have won the right to make changes.
Often others are not impressed. Even when the tremor lessens
and the elderly person plainly states they feel better, family
members may disregard your recommendations. Get tough! It's
your loved one. You have something at stake too. Be sympathetic
with negative responses. But very firm. Make their choices clear:
• Either the inside door to the garage gets sealed off or the
cars and lawn mower get parked outside and anything
containing gasoline or solvents gets put in a detached shed.
• Either the girls use their hair dryers in their bedrooms with
the door closed or you'll get them all new ones that don't
contain asbestos.
• Either the clothes dryer gets a new belt or it is taped securely
shut and the laundry is dried on the line or taken to a
Laundromat.
• Either the plumbing gets changed (to plastic) or each faucet
in the house gets a filter. (If your plumbing is corrod

ing, not even filters are a good idea—you would have to
change them every week!)